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Old 01-21-2005, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by ralper,Jan 21 2005, 10:04 PM
Charlie,

You, Michelle and Christian should visit with her. Especially Christian. You'd be amazed at the joy seeing family brings to someone. Before he died last September, my father's eyes would light up when he see my kids or my sister's kids. Go visit.
We just got of the phone with her and she cried saying she would never get to see Christian. I promised her we would bring him down when she got home from the hospital and was feeling well enough. I told her when you are ready for us to come down just say the word and we will be there, all three of us.
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Originally Posted by charlie,Jan 21 2005, 10:03 PM
We just got of the phone with her and she cried saying she would never get to see Christian. I promised her we would bring him down when she got home from the hospital and was feeling well enough. I told her when you are ready for us to come down just say the word and we will be there, all three of us.
Don't wait for her to be ready, just make a plan to go and go. She may never be ready enough to say so.
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Originally Posted by ralper,Jan 21 2005, 10:09 PM
Don't wait for her to be ready, just make a plan to go and go. She may never be ready enough to say so.
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Originally Posted by dean,Jan 20 2005, 06:29 PM
...I would get all of my affairs in order, then enjoy what time I had left.
The "enjoy what time I have left" part would include:

*spending quality time with family & friends
*travel to many of the parts of the world still unseen by my eyes
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Originally Posted by valentine,Jan 21 2005, 09:48 AM
..... I recently lost one of my long-time friends. We'd known each for over 30 years......
I've thought about this recently...realizing that many friends and I are the age of Charlie's aunt.

Passages: Some of our friends have progressive diseases and are starting to show their age. Only one of our 4 parents are left...very few other relatives in that 'Finest Generation'. Many high school classmates have passed on...and especially guys We are now the 'surviving generation'. Sooner or later, one of our best friends will die...and it's not a happy thought.

Thinking more positively, maybe we should start having Vintage Events more ofter :: Fall Colors, Winter Wonderland, Spring Fling AND Summer Sizzle every year!
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Originally Posted by charlie,Jan 20 2005, 02:08 PM
it's terrible.
It's LIFE! And what a beautiful thing it is.

Live it as long as you can, because it will end. That's how life is.
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[QUOTE=paS2K,Jan 22 2005, 12:38 AM] .....Passages: Some of our friends have progressive diseases and are starting to show their age. Only one of our 4 parents are left...very few other relatives in that 'Finest Generation'. Many high school classmates have passed on...and especially guys
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I hear you, Jerry.
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Sorry to hear this, Jerry. You guys will be in our thoughts.
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, Jerry. My thoughts are with you and your family.


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