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My first problem is the j's strut bar... The drivers side fits like a charm but the passenger side just wont go in? The extra piece (engine damper mount) on the strut bar keeps hitting the piece of metal thats holding up the fuse box. has anyone had this problem? or am I doing something wrong?

Also I just installed my tein flex today and I was wondering... how would I set it to ride more smooth instead of bouncing on every little bump?? Is it because of the height? I lowered it all around to 2 fingers (fender to top of tires.)

Sorry for the nOOb questions... First timer and trying to learn