ProV1

sounds like cliche but it really is true. be a sweetie/nicest guy in the world, tell her how much u luv her & $hit and she'll treat u like u aint crap.. but be the biggest a$$hole, ask why she's so damn fat and tell her to stop eating too much, tell her to clean up yoru house, yadayadayada then she'll LOVE you and worship you!

hpark

partially true....i blame her parents.
kids equate love with the way their parents (mis)treated them.....that's why abused kids always grow up and get abusive spouse......sad

naomi-sarah

For the record, not all women like to be treated like submissive nothings and name called... except maybe in the bedroom.

OnlyHonda4me

Depends on the woman... If you were to ask this to Loveline (for those who listen), they probably had an abusive past and were hit by their father before he walked out when the woman was 7. Some other women just don't know what else is out there. Either way, I'm glad I don't treat my woman like sheeyit, and she dont take no sheeyit from me.

Sly Stamps and the Family Stone

Sly knows this to be true from experience

S2kracka

Anyone else heard the new Destiny Child's song where they are singing about only wanting a thug and he better be "street" enough? I know there are a lot of solid-minded "good" girls out there, but it seems all the ones I meet are already taken in long-term relationships. Oh well, someday... One last thing to mention, we the "good" guys will have the last laugh, 10 years from now that hottie and her thug will be chillin' in poverty in their LIH (low income housing) b/c after all it turns out thugs aren't good providers at all

S2020

I have a question: do men behave the same way? Do we tend to ignore women who care for us and go for those you don't give us the time of day?

S2020

above post is not to flame anyone, just a musing/question

Incubus

YES. After a year and a half relationship with a very nice girl, who loves me more than love itself, I find it very different from when my ex acted as the "supperior" one in the relationship. I know better, so I'm not being a fool...but I can feel what you mean.

CeleSaga83

so damn tru... i was so nice to my gf in the begining.. and she was treatin' like sh.t.. .now it's the other way around.. lol