WWYD if you lost someone, or everything?
01-13-2010, 06:25 PM
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[QUOTE=JoeyBalls,Jan 12 2010, 08:03 AM] kind of random, but this morning I got a call from wife who was told that one of our friends had a brain aneurysm and subsequently went into a coma. The Drs said she would remain like that
01-14-2010, 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted by JoeyBalls,Jan 12 2010, 11:03 AM
Anyway I have told my wife that if something ever happened to her I really do not know what I would do with myself. I tend to be emotionally unstable at times (glad Im flying your plane right haha) and if I lost her I really feel as though I would withdrawl myself from society and go live in Yosemite in the woods, or live in a barn with a dog and a plane far far away (im not kidding either)
I dunno I think about that a lot and though it sounds strange I sometimes wish I never met my wife or had such a close relationship with my family because the thought of losing them just overwhelms me.
Anyway, this is kinda deep, not sure why I am posting it, but figured maybe you guys think about this type of shit too?
I dunno I think about that a lot and though it sounds strange I sometimes wish I never met my wife or had such a close relationship with my family because the thought of losing them just overwhelms me.
Anyway, this is kinda deep, not sure why I am posting it, but figured maybe you guys think about this type of shit too?
We all grieve in our own way(s), as indeed there are phases we go through to process pain. As we mature and experience tradgedies vicariously (wife's friend, Hatian quake, 9/11), on some level we are being prepared for our own trials ahead, if we ask the questions you have and consider what/ who is important to us. It's not deep too do so, I think it's healthy and even necessary to do so and be prepared.
Having a support system of a good marriage, family, friends (a community of faith? other?) will help tremendously, as well as day to day outlets like a dog, a 500 hp Turbo - anything that reminds us we're human and life is worth the living.
Forgive the rantings of a Vintage-r, life isn't easy, shit happens.
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