HOld on.........She's in the military?! and she's cheating on him? to be honest. in this case... Since they are just bf/gf... she's gonna keep doing it. if that were me? being cheated on? I would DEF wanna know.

If they were married and she's cheating.. that will open up a whole new can of ass whipping.. that is Illegal and VERY strict in the military.. definately can be sent to Lenorwood for that for years to come.

This of it this way.. and this is for you to judge.. if your friend is as close to you as you say like he's your brother... He will listen to you.. but you better make sure you KNOW your right.. and not an assumption.. because if it was, and he forgave you and it happened again, the second time might not be so easy.

but like i said........i dont like walking around like a fool. if there is something going on behind my back, you better beleive i wanna know about it. sooner than later...so i can take action and get on with it......it would be very bad for you friend/bro to wait that whole year and half of deployment thinking everything is cool, while she's up there slobbin and nobbin with some private and making her deployment go faster just to come back to let you know a year and half later she's been unfaithful while you just waisted all that time. Believe me.........its better now than later..........

But i'm wondering how you know of this if she's deployed.

 

ah ha! YOUPORN!?

 

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oh yea totally with what Allan said

 

you have to tell your friend. if he is as close to you as a brother, than he should understand that you are looking out for his best interests.

 

you need hard proof

 

i had the same thing happen to me. My ex was sleeping with a bunch of people in my last command. My best friends told me and at first i didnt want to believe it but then I started seeing how she was acting when she came back early. She was always on the computer emailing the guy she was sleeping with. the only way i actually figured it out was cause she left her email open on my computer

 

I would want to know... walking in on the action in progress as I've done in the past is not the desired way to find out.

That said, make sure you tell the known facts with zero personal spin. It's up to him to believe it or not. If you try and put a personal spin on it and he chooses not to believe it, your relationship with him is going to be dogshit from that point forward, even if it turns out to be true later on.

 

You should have sex with her, tape it, and show him the tape as proof she's cheating.

 

what possessed her to do something so stupid as to leaving that on your comp