What Women Really Want
12-12-2002, 05:16 AM
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Seriously though (had to say it!)...
Trying to put a generic label on what women want is like trying to put a generic label on what men want. It's not going to be very accurate.
My suggestion is to LISTEN to your woman, and find out what she wants. If she is reluctant to share her needs with you, you have to try even harder to get her to share. Above all else, COMMUNICATION is the most important factor in any relationship.
Outside the bedroom, pay attention to what things she does for you. A lot of times, we (people in general) tend to do for others what we like to have done for ourselves. If she frequently tries to massage your shoulders, she may want a massage herself.
Trying to put a generic label on what women want is like trying to put a generic label on what men want. It's not going to be very accurate.
My suggestion is to LISTEN to your woman, and find out what she wants. If she is reluctant to share her needs with you, you have to try even harder to get her to share. Above all else, COMMUNICATION is the most important factor in any relationship.
Outside the bedroom, pay attention to what things she does for you. A lot of times, we (people in general) tend to do for others what we like to have done for ourselves. If she frequently tries to massage your shoulders, she may want a massage herself.
12-12-2002, 07:31 AM
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Originally posted by babygrass
I'd like to be able to have one with a guy.. much less four.
For some reason, I just can't get off.
I'd like to be able to have one with a guy.. much less four.
For some reason, I just can't get off.
Hey, I thought you were still a virgin, did your status change!?!?
12-12-2002, 07:32 AM
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Do you think most men know what women really want?
I think most men might THINK they know, but I think almost every man makes one, huge, critical mistake when it comes to women...
The mistake is that they don't recognize that in each woman their are actually TWO women... the natural woman and the culturally programmed woman. The culturally programmed woman is the one with all the rules and all the roles... all the restrictions, constrictions... all the shouldn'ts, shoulds, don'ts, can'ts, mustn'ts...etc.
But the natural woman....that's the woman right there at the core... where you keep your most exciting memories... where you ponder fantasies... daydreams... amazing possibilities... the things you'd do if no one were watching and no one... even your best friends... would ever, ever know about...
Most men just do things that trigger the culturally programmed woman... But when a man... a rare man... can touch a woman in that special place in all those special ways you LONG to be touched... in ways you maybe even can't admit to yourself... then WOW... an almost complete transformation takes place... and you start blossoming way beyond what you ever even thought possible.
So I think the smart man is the man who has the realization that that place is there... waiting and longing... even inspite the fact that women often have to lock all of that away... and yet they are still there.
I think most men might THINK they know, but I think almost every man makes one, huge, critical mistake when it comes to women...
The mistake is that they don't recognize that in each woman their are actually TWO women... the natural woman and the culturally programmed woman. The culturally programmed woman is the one with all the rules and all the roles... all the restrictions, constrictions... all the shouldn'ts, shoulds, don'ts, can'ts, mustn'ts...etc.
But the natural woman....that's the woman right there at the core... where you keep your most exciting memories... where you ponder fantasies... daydreams... amazing possibilities... the things you'd do if no one were watching and no one... even your best friends... would ever, ever know about...
Most men just do things that trigger the culturally programmed woman... But when a man... a rare man... can touch a woman in that special place in all those special ways you LONG to be touched... in ways you maybe even can't admit to yourself... then WOW... an almost complete transformation takes place... and you start blossoming way beyond what you ever even thought possible.
So I think the smart man is the man who has the realization that that place is there... waiting and longing... even inspite the fact that women often have to lock all of that away... and yet they are still there.
12-12-2002, 09:36 AM
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Very impressive thus far guys!! I'm saving my comments for a little later though.....
But, I would like to know, amartin - how is a man supposed to "bring out" this natural woman?
...I think Geoff and you are running along somewhat the same line of thought too?
12-12-2002, 10:28 AM
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Originally posted by Skuzzy
Women like guys who can cook
And impress the parents
And well, you know
Women like guys who can cook
And impress the parents
And well, you know
12-12-2002, 10:28 AM
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The answer to the question at hand:
Whatever it is, I sure don't have it!
Whatever it is, I sure don't have it!