i'll believe it when i see it

 

<< still happily married but not dead

 

 

If I like a girl she knows it and there is no games.....

 

Exactly. They're the ones who play the freakin games!

 

 

Actually, GAMES are a product of insecurity. Women, typically, are more insecure than men... but not always.

 

Wow... a girl in agreeance.....

 

i'm going to refrain from commenting because i KNOW i will seriously piss off everyone in here.. and it's really not worth my time to comment. everyone plays games, they just dont' know it...

 

it has nothing to do with security or insecurity.
actually NOT playing games is because of insecurity. when a girl is insecure, she chases after men, calls them all the time, makes all the effort in hopes of getting him to like her and igniting some sort of flame... what ends up happening? he gets turned off by her and dumps her. if he does choose to go ahead and give it a shot, no matter how far down the line, a week, two, a couple months, maybe even a couple years into hte relationship, he ends up dumping her. know why? cuz she out of insecurity pursued him, instead of playing her game right and letting HIM pursue HER. he never wanted her from the beginning, she was just convenient cuz she was always in his face..
if a girl plays her game right, she will never be in a situation where she is getting hurtfully dumped over and over and over again.... rather, if he pursues her, he will always adore her because he had to WORK HARD to get her... no matter what anyone says, MAN pursues WOMAN, by nature men are hte aggressors... and if a man isn't man enough to BE the aggressor, then what the heck would ya want with him anyways??? you gonna fight his fights for him when you're married? you gonna wear the pants forever?

i didnt' think so...

this is the game. like it or not.