Remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 Beers ...



When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours

in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 Beers ...


A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in

front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large

and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He

then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.


The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into

the jar He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas

between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was

full. They agreed it was.


The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.

Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the

jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.'


The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured

the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space

between the sand. The students laughed.


'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to

recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the

important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends

and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only

they remained, your life would still be full.


The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house

and your car.


The sand is everything else---the small stuff.


'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no

room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you

spend all your time

and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things

that are important to you.


'Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend

time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with

grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to

dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house

and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf ball first---the things
that

really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'


One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer

represented. The professor smiled and said, 'I'm glad you asked.'

The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,

there's always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.'

 

i heard a different version of this in church. very good way to put stuff in to perspective.

 

I heard this in church too. Great story.