How do you get someone to love you?
09-08-2008, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted by mina,Sep 8 2008, 09:12 PM
Wow ... yeah this is totally random. Thanks, Quanie, for the link 
The answer is: You can't get someone to love you. People are individuals. They love who they want to love. There is no way to make someone love you because that is ultimately their decision.
You can play mind games or what not to try and make that person stay with you longer. But ultimately, in the end, it is their choice. Just like it is your choice on who you decide to fall in love with.
The answer is: You can't get someone to love you. People are individuals. They love who they want to love. There is no way to make someone love you because that is ultimately their decision.
You can play mind games or what not to try and make that person stay with you longer. But ultimately, in the end, it is their choice. Just like it is your choice on who you decide to fall in love with.
You don't want to make someone love you, you want them to love who you are.
sounds like a plan 
09-09-2008, 12:30 AM
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well...job interviews doesnt have good or bad memories...that come back and haunt you.
time to time... "So why is it like this again when it was already gone.....I get this shiet once in a while...and even worst when it came from the root"
What really funny to me is that, its seen like everybody that i know, even on the forum, had gone through rough times like this. except me.. haha
thanks john im ok.
its just that, it is hard to be alone, im always try to find something to do or be around people. I Know its not the answer to keep hiding from it...but blah....
time to time... "So why is it like this again when it was already gone.....I get this shiet once in a while...and even worst when it came from the root"
What really funny to me is that, its seen like everybody that i know, even on the forum, had gone through rough times like this. except me.. haha
thanks john im ok.
its just that, it is hard to be alone, im always try to find something to do or be around people. I Know its not the answer to keep hiding from it...but blah....
09-09-2008, 12:48 AM
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okay, i think i just going to delete this thread....s2ki = fun my hobbies...cant let it bring bad memories...hehe this is "myspace" 
ps: how u delete the whole thread? hmm
ps: how u delete the whole thread? hmm
09-09-2008, 01:19 AM
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Originally Posted by next_nsx,Sep 9 2008, 12:30 AM
time to time... "So why is it like this again when it was already gone.....I get this shiet once in a while...and even worst when it came from the root"
all i can say is that it takes time... to heal AND to find love.
i never believed in the "time heals all wounds" cliche, but it became true for me.
i know what it's like to have someone you cared for constantly pop into your mind. it's annoying and it doesn't really do much but amplify the hurt. it's easy to say, "just stop thinking about him/her." but it's not... so go ahead and think and think. you'll think less and less about it... or at least, that's my impression from personal experience.
you very well may have been hurt by someone so badly that you'll need a LOAD of time (a year and a half in my case... but it was teenage love... but love is love... the definition just changes, yeknow?). well, that's fine. you have friends and family. rely on them to carry you through.
who knows, during the healing, you might find someone who'll make you heal a WHOLE lot faster.
that's all i got for you
take care.
09-09-2008, 03:32 AM
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Originally Posted by next_nsx,Sep 8 2008, 08:58 PM
i got a question, just want to know how people on s2ki respond to this.
"How do you get someone to make love with you?"
"How do you get someone to make love with you?"
