boss/employee relationships?
01-15-2004, 01:56 AM
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boss/employee relationships?
ok, so i've got this really hot girl who works for me and i've been told that she really "digs" me.
but as always i'm the last to know, i'm slow.
thing is, she is here on a working visa and is going in about 4/5 months.
she has a current boyfriend but thats a nowhere relationship.
she has heaps of hot friends as well who i can get hooked up with as well.
i know what everyone is saying... BULLSH*T. but it's sadly true. i'm always the last to know on this stuff and unbelievably slow.
so should i tag that sh*t or better leave it alone and tag the friends?
ps she is of legal age.
but as always i'm the last to know, i'm slow.
thing is, she is here on a working visa and is going in about 4/5 months.
she has a current boyfriend but thats a nowhere relationship.
she has heaps of hot friends as well who i can get hooked up with as well.
i know what everyone is saying... BULLSH*T. but it's sadly true. i'm always the last to know on this stuff and unbelievably slow.
so should i tag that sh*t or better leave it alone and tag the friends?
ps she is of legal age.
01-15-2004, 02:11 AM
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Even though she is only her for another 4/5 months.... if something does not work out, then that can make things very awkward at work. So I suggest, just 'tagging' the friends - ALL of them!! 
01-15-2004, 02:36 AM
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So I guess this is a bit off topic huh?
Assuming you like her and given the fact she has a boyfriend (and that you work with her) I would tread carefully but try to subtly let her know that you're keen.
If that doesn't work 'tag' the friends!
Assuming you like her and given the fact she has a boyfriend (and that you work with her) I would tread carefully but try to subtly let her know that you're keen.
If that doesn't work 'tag' the friends!
01-15-2004, 04:11 AM
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Like they say "Don't get your honey where you get your money!".
You may be lucky and not suffer any downfall if things don't work out but if they do you have a whole different set of problems to deal with. Jealousy from other employees, visa issues to name a few.
That and you will find it very hard to tell her she is not doing her job (or you won't and she may try to give you a guilt trip).
Tag her friends. So far it does not sound like you are even infautuated with her. You just like her...
You may be lucky and not suffer any downfall if things don't work out but if they do you have a whole different set of problems to deal with. Jealousy from other employees, visa issues to name a few.
That and you will find it very hard to tell her she is not doing her job (or you won't and she may try to give you a guilt trip).
Tag her friends. So far it does not sound like you are even infautuated with her. You just like her...
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My god this thread started bad and just went downhill form there
On a serious note Im with cashout, she might be leaving in 5 months but your other employees will definitely see what is going on and you have to deal with the attitude. I hooked up with my receptionists cousin that was over from holland it was great because she was going home in a little while so there was no real long term pressure (ignoring the fact that she wanted to marry me to stay in the country ) BUT every day until I changed offices (NB no R in office) my receptionist would make little cracks that bugged the hell out of me.
Oh that reminds me, Aus Ive got some cream left over that'll clean that rash up no problems
Uhh... tag - you're it
On a serious note Im with cashout, she might be leaving in 5 months but your other employees will definitely see what is going on and you have to deal with the attitude. I hooked up with my receptionists cousin that was over from holland it was great because she was going home in a little while so there was no real long term pressure (ignoring the fact that she wanted to marry me to stay in the country
) BUT every day until I changed offices (NB no R in office) my receptionist would make little cracks that bugged the hell out of me.Oh that reminds me, Aus Ive got some cream left over that'll clean that rash up no problems
Uhh... tag - you're it
